Friday, October 6, 2023

Thrive in college - DREAM ON!


                            Choose your own dreams!

   I happen to be one of those crazy Christians who is convicted that God wants good dreams to come true for us.  For a vision of good dreams you need God’s guidance and encouragement.  And for dreams to come true, the objective is to merge your passions with your dreams.  Fulfillment will result.
   In pursuit of a college education, align your major with your passion, or at least with your intense interests.  Then ponder whether your passion and/or interests fit your dreams, or can in some manner support your dreams.

   If you have yet to find your passion or passions, keep working to discover them.  Maybe you will find them in the midst of learning new subjects or embarking on new adventures during your early time in college.  Learning is a blessing.  Thus an opportunity to keep learning is a blessing.

   My junior year of high school was crummy.  Looking back, I realize four out of my six classes were not a fit for me.  Those four classes did not fit my gifts or interests!  From the start I was on a wrong track in high school because my mom wanted me to earn the “Governor’s Seal.”  She calculated that would look good on a college application.  Her intention was good, since mom sincerely wanted me to attend a good college.  Yet long term success from high school or college work does not come from highlighted accomplishments; rather it comes from a good education.
   Considering my ill-advised high school plan, in retrospect it makes sense that I became discouraged about future dreams.  In fact, as discouragement escalated in high school, attending college merely became a career goal.  (Yet it did become a strong goal during my freshman orientation, but I will spare you that story.)  Also, I did want to please my parents who were so supportive of a college education.
   Yet in the midst of my work at Virginia Tech, flourishing there became my dream!  And my education and degree from such a great university supported some future dreams.

   On a grand note, attending and graduating from Colorado Christian University was my dream!  I made a huge sacrifice to study there in my forties.  Goodness resulted, and again, future dreams were supported.

   To ultimately succeed, there is even a deeper foundation: Love.
   Whatever your pursuit, loving people is the best you can accomplish.  Loving people is what God wants us to do.  Radical!  Reflecting here on my years at Virginia Tech and my years at CCU, I realize my greatest accomplishment in college was loving people.

   And know today that Jesus loves you!!!

   In my college years I made many mistakes, yet I also made many great decisions.  This has been emotional reflecting back.  I hope this eight point series helps you to thrive in college, for real.

                            What is a dream you have?


+  Heavenly Father, in this world full of so much trouble, I pray for help for each of us to further gain opportunities to carry out our passions and to live our dreams.  And may we rely on You to love people all along.
It is through the loving name of You Lord Jesus I pray.  Amen.

Hunter Irvine

Thursday, October 5, 2023

Thrive in college – PERSEVERE


                                                    Persevere by prayer!

   Reassessments are a part of persevering.  Sometimes adjustments are needed, such as changing a major.  Adjustments are a courageous part of persevering since they put you in a position to carry on.
   Reassessments are best when you are not under pressure.  Summers might be the most conducive time when in college.  That monumental career change I told of in my last piece was not finalized until weeks into my summer.  The pressure was less, and I had time to ponder.

   Praying is critical.  Once I talked with a minister in a cafĂ© in Ithaca, New York.  Turns out we both shared the same Alma mater, though he studied four years earlier than myself.  Now I was not a Christian at Virginia Tech.  He was.  His major was Computer Science there at a time in history when the computer field was starting to swell from obscurity to being a standard part of society.
   Yet at some point during the spring quarter of his sophomore year, he was considering shifting to a career in Christian ministry.  What he did was wise.  One day when he had no commitments, he took the entire day off.  He went to some quiet area away from campus.  Then he prayed and pondered.  After doing so, he made his decision.  (He decided to enter the ministry, yet he also decided to complete his Computer Science degree at Virginia Tech over the next two years.)

   At some point in college, you should consider and pray whether you are on the correct track.  If you are, keep going!

   Be willing to pray for help, and not just when there is a crisis.
   I like to socialize.  Praying is simply talking with God, which includes listening to God, first and foremost through Scripture.  Then your heart will be prepared for you to make caring decisions, and your mind will be more focused to make wise decisions.

   Praying is not simply an action for huge decisions.  In order to persevere, sometimes you need to pray simply to make it through a rough week.  Seriously, I am long out of college, but last week I had a rough week.  I needed God to help me make it.  He did.


What is a challenging goal you accomplished which required perseverance?

Hunter Irvine

Wednesday, October 4, 2023

Thrive in college - DISCOVER


       Amidst all the learning, discover more about your passions and gifts.

   A life changing discovery at Virginia Tech came about in the midst of a period of being overloaded.  Spring quarter my junior year I needed to take 18 hours.  In working out my schedule months ahead, I had five intense classes all picked out.  There remained one elective to choose.  Looking at the academic catalog, I noticed a “Creative Writing” class.  That sounded enjoyable.  It also sounded easier, thus I could focus on my challenging law classes which supported my career track.
   Yet choosing that one elective class soon changed the course of my career plan.  The reasons: First, the professor, Ed Falco, was an excellent creative writing teacher who fostered an opportunity for students to discover their writing ability.  Second, I learned of my gift and passion for storytelling.
   As it turned out, Creative Writing gained my greatest attention that quarter.  I truly enjoyed it.

   My final semester of my senior year, I took “Advanced Creative Writing” with the same professor.  (Again, Virginia Tech switched to the semester system that year.)  Jumping to the end of that semester, I experienced one of the vital events on my journey in this world.  Late one afternoon near the end of the week just before finals, I happen to ‘run into’ Professor Falco in a stairwell of the English building.  Our conversation was brief, yet his sincere statement to me had a huge influence on my life.  Professor Falco told me I was the best writer he had ever had in any of his classes.
   What he said to me gave me the courage to change my career course that upcoming summer, a monumental change in my life for the best.

   In this complex world, there is an opportunity to learn every day.  Yet college is a unique opportunity to discover even more about your passions and gifts.  Maybe you will even discover a new passion or gift.  The only way to do so: Commit to learning and working.

       What is a gift you have?

Hunter Irvine

Tuesday, October 3, 2023

Thrive in college - PLAN, WORK, and ENJOY


                Plan to make it enjoyable.

   College is hard work!  Success in college for me involved countless hours of reading and reviewing.  Yet if you are diligent on planning, you can create some enjoyment!

Take the Best Classes

   Overall, I did not like high school.  In retrospect, though there were several reasons.  One key factor was the fact I was studying subjects which did not fit my interests or gifts!
   Carefully ponder all of your course options, and choose classes you want to take.
   “General education” classes are a negative issue for many college students, as they were for me.  The fewer general education classes the better in my opinion.  Then deal with what you must do.
   For example, when I was a student at Virginia Tech, you often had general education options.  For example, being in the College of Arts and Sciences, I had a choice as to whether to take either Statistics or Computer Science for one quarter to fulfill one general education requirement.  (Virginia Tech switched to the semester system my senior year.)  Statistics was not for me!  Computer Science was not for me, however, in reading the class description, I learned that class was simply learning how to use a few software programs.  That class turned out to be a practical class which helped me immensely for future classes and even for future work.
   If you are willing to learn some new things, you can even enjoy classes which are a bit out of your realm, as long as they do not venture way off into the distance in that particular field.

Get Good Professors

   Your determination is always important, yet in an environment where professors have so much power and control, a professor can make or break a class.
   The summer before my first year at Colorado Christian University, I was working on my course schedule at a computer in the library.  I needed to take a history class as a “general education” requirement, and I found a class which fit well with my school and work schedule.  Yet there were other history professors I could take at different times.  Since it would be my first semester in college in many years, I wanted to get off to a great start.
   No joke, there was only one other person in the computer lab there in the middle of summer.  I gently interrupted her at her computer and asked, “By any chance did you ever have Dr. Dyke as a professor?”  She had.  She told me about his style, and she recommended him.
   So I enrolled in the class with confidence.  And he turned out to be a great professor.  Why?  Because he was a superb “Socratic method” professor.  Since I am an interactive learner, I learned much from him.  Plus, he was a man who cared about the students!  I was blessed to have Dr. Dyke for two classes.
   Another example: At some point in high school, I developed an idea that taking a college astronomy course would be a quintessential college experience.  Not considering that elements of astronomy, such as math and physics, did not fit my gifts, I wanted to take astronomy.  And when the opportunity came at Virginia Tech, I went for it.
   I had the great fortune of getting a professor who was a great person.  Knowing the class consisted of students of a variety of majors, the professor was fantastic at explaining challenging scientific facts and concepts in a manner that a liberal arts minded person could understand.  The man was cheery.  The man was kind.  And it was obvious the man loved teaching astronomy.

Get a Tutor

   A “general education” requirement for all students at Virginia Tech in the College of Arts and Sciences, back in the last century when I was there, was a quarter of Algebra, a quarter of Trigonometry, and a quarter of Calculus.  Crazy.  My Trigonometry teacher was a grad student.  Guess what?  She flunked out of Tech the next semester.  It is a weird story about that poor class, yet on the flip side, an inspiring story about my wonderful Calculus teacher the next quarter.  Rather than getting into those detailed stories, I simply say here that for Trigonometry, I needed a tutor!  (But I did not get one, and it was my lowest grade ever.)
   Tutors cost money.  Yet if you need one, and if you get someone good, it will likely make a difference.

Create Some Fun

   In this world, you have a number of options.  I advocate you should choose options which bring some fulfillment and enjoyment.  And yes, I think there should be some fun.  And fun often starts with you.
   At Virginia Tech, returning to the subject of that Astronomy class, that great professor made it fun!  So I keep rolling with that fun!
   Near the end of the quarter, to assist students who had a low grade, the professor offered a sole extra credit option.  That option was to visit the Virginia Tech observatory within the last few Fridays of the quarter, and look at stars and galaxies through their giant telescope.  The observatory was up on a mountain in beautiful southwest Virginia, and was operated by a graduate student on Friday nights.
   Getting a friend from the class and another mutual friend to attend one Friday night, I had a blast.  I will spare you the details and simply say looking through the telescope for me was interesting, however, the reason it was so much fun was because my two friends and I made it fun.  No alcohol.  No admission fee.  Plus extra credit.  It was one of my most memorable Friday nights of college.

Work before play!

   Closing likewise with that Astronomy class: I went one step further beyond simply enjoying his entertaining teaching.  I paid close attention to what he said.  Now I took great notes in all of my classes, yet there was a special focus by me in that class.
   I have a distinct memory of studying intently for his final exam.  The night before the exam, two friends came to my room wanting to play sponge basketball.  I said ‘no.’
   I kept studying intently for Astronomy, reviewing my textbook and notes.  I figured the exam would even involve a few physics equations, and I carefully went through the material.  The result: I got the highest grade in the class on the final exam.  (I know this because the professor told me, and he said I was the one who determined the “curve” on that challenging exam in the class of about seventy students.)
   I worked hard in that class, and enjoyment resulted.  And there was the incredible bonus for me, a “liberal arts guy,” of an “A” in a class within the Physics department at Virginia Tech.  I am proud of that to this day.

            When was an occasion when you were intent on working before play?

Hunter Irvine